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CHRISTIAN DATING TIPS |
Christians need to have a different attitude
toward dating.
Christian dating is at a higher standard - God's standard.
In Gods Kingdom He sets all the standards
including the one for love.
We live for God's love first and foremost,
but we also live for the love of others.
Love is Gods greatest commandment
This is my commandment, that you love
one another, as I have loved you.
-John 15:12
A cord of 3 strands is not quickly
broken.
[3 STRANDS - You, your spouse, and GOD]
-Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
We must realize that God means for us to
meet the ONE person that we are meant to
marry.
According to Genesis 2:24, a man will leave
home to marry one women to "become one
flesh".
You do not need to date a lot of people,
just the right one.
Christians interested in dating other
Christian singles must be honest and straight forward about their
religious requirements, try to meet others through church, family
and friends, and should stick to only Christian dating
Web sites.
Be honest with potential dates when
discussing Christianity,
Proverbs 4:23:
"Above all else, guard your heart, for it is
the wellspring of life."
Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast, it is
not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking,
It is not easily angered, it keeps no record
of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices
with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always
hopes, always perseveres.
-1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Christian
Dating Tips to Grow a Strong Relationship!
PRAY
Before you even leave house to meet your
date,
you need to spend time on your knees asking
God to help you honour Him and your date. You will never go wrong with prayer.
This will also put you in the right frame of
mind for your time together.
COMMUNICATE
There Is no better way to get to know
someone
than by speaking to them about a wide
variety of topics.
The more you talk, the more you will know if
this may be a relationship that you should
pursue.
BE FRIENDS!
Do not forget that until you are married,
the person you are dating could be some one
else's future mate.
When you start to date someone there is so
much
pressure to move things along much too
quickly.
Choose to keep your relationship on a
friendship level.
The longer you can remain "just friends",
the better your relationship will be if you
decide to get married at some point. It is great being married to your best
friend
DOUBLE DATING
Physical issues are a lot less distracting
if you plan
your dating situations to include other
couples.
Group dates could be a lot of fun and you'll
also be
helping your friends keep purity in their
relationships as well.
RESPECT EACH OTHER ALWAYS
If you respect your date then you will not
say or do things that will intentionally
hurt them.
Ask yourself "what would Jesus do?" and then
do it!
PRAY IN GROUPS
What in the world does this mean?
What we are suggesting is that you do not
pray together alone as a couple too early in
your relationship.
Prayer is so very important in any
relationship so please do not misunderstand
this point.
When you pray with someone of the opposite
sex that you care about you start to build a level of intimacy that
can often lead to trouble.
The goal in any Christian relationship is to
honor God.
Prayer is intimate communication with God
and can
draw couples together in ways not intended
if you are not careful.
It is better to pray together when you are
with other Christians.
This will help keep the focus on God and not
allow
thoughts and emotions to wander to
prohibited areas.
DON'T KISS
At least until you are engaged to be
married.
Okay, this could be extremely difficult, but
if you just follow this one dating tip then
most of the others will happen naturally.
Even kissing once you are engaged can be
very difficult.
It is better to not kiss at all until your
wedding day!
Before you start laughing and exit to
another page with thoughts that we must be
crazy, consider these points on kissing.
A kiss begins to sexually stimulate a man
(and woman) instantly.
If you are not kissing then you will not
become tempted to take things to a more
intimate level. You will be protecting
yourself & the purity of your date.
A kiss will surely break down your barriers
and leave you in a position that could ultimately devastate your relationship with
your date and separate you from a close walk
with God. Self-control seems to be the
better option.
Just think how magical that first kiss will
be if it is saved for your wedding day!
Dating is a good experience and should be
enjoyed by both people in the relationship.
If you came looking for these dating tips,
then you have a desire to honour God and your date with the choices you will make
while dating.
God bless you, your life, and your future
relationships with these dating tips.
Love is patient, love is kind.
Happy Christian Dating |
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Jesus you are my first love
I love you so much.
This is my commandment, that ye love one another
- Jesus, John 15:12
To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides - David Viscott
You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection"
Where there is love there is life - Gandhi
Love conquers all things; let us too surrender to Love. - Virgil
To be loved, be lovable. - Ovid
We can do no great things, only small things with great love.
- Mother Teresa
One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love.
- Sophocles
Life is the flower for which love is the honey. - Victor Hugo
Love and work are the cornerstones of our humanness. - Sigmund Freud
A loving heart is the truest wisdom. - Charles Dickens
WATCH TOP 10 LOVE QUOTES VIDEO HERE:
http://www.selfimprovementsguide.com/love.htm
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